Discernment
Friday, October 13th, 2006
photo by Sabine Schlegel-Fann
There is a lot of contradictory information out there. Right when you think you’ve discovered some profound truth or insight, some other piece of information contradicts it. That’s why it is so important not to base any of our decisions solely on information that is external to us. Instead, it is necessary to run it by our intuition, our inner “knowing”, our feelings of resonance, so that we may verify its validity.
This is the system of checks and balances provided to the human species. Our ability to reflect on our experiences separates us from other animal species. The problem is that we often settle for and rest our awareness on the face value of the information that we encounter.
To engage deeper with an idea, we must test it against our direct experience. Otherwise, what we know is nothing more than an intellectual knowing, that has no basis in Truth.
All of us have inner resources that include direct access to knowledge that transcends the limits of intellectual knowledge. It is in a sense a link-up to the vast store of knowledge that exists beyond the limitations of the three-dimensional world we live in. This has been referred to as the collective unconscious. Essentially, all knowledge and awareness in existence is available to each of us. We only have to tune into it to have access to it.
How is this done? Much as one would tune into a radio station, to be able to hear it we have to slow down, pay attention and listen.
Even more important, is developing the ability to discern the difference between true knowledge that is coming from within and the mental voices in our heads. A slippery slope until we can fully grasp that there is indeed a difference. The difference is difficult to hear without some degree of practice.
The first thing to look for is the tone. The voice of our inner awareness, which you can call your Higher Self, Source or God, has a calm, quiet, emotionally neutral tone. The voices of the mind or random thoughts, sometimes referred to as the “drunk monkey”, has a chaotic, frenetic, emotionally charged tone. The tone of our inner awareness is consistently grandfatherly and wise, while the tone of our mental thoughts is ever-changing and in a moment’s notice can shift from rebellious child to scolding parent.
The second thing to look at is content. The voice of our inner awareness tends to brings us information, insights and wisdom that we need right now in our lives. It is sometimes very simple and brings clarity to a particular situation. Other times, is it more complex and shifts our perspective entirely or guides us to make a major decision in our life. The content of the mind, on the other hand, is all over the place. The messages are inconsistent and leave us feeling overwhelmed and confused. It has a reactive, impulsive quality to it, that is typically fully of judgment and demands. The information tends to lead us around in circles, rather than offer us solutions.
The third aspect of discernment is the state of being that is evoked. Our inner awareness brings us feelings of expansiveness and relief that comes from finally having the vision to see the bigger picture. It opens our hearts and brings with it compassion and forgiveness and trust. The egoistic mind brings feelings of contraction and limitation. It makes us feel powerless and helpless, which we quickly attempt to cover up with a false sense of power or self-righteousness. Either way, the result is that those thoughts make us feel less than or more than others.
Finally, the best way to know the difference and really see each for what they are comes down to this: our inner awareness has our best interest, our well being at heart, while the mental monkey or ego is only interested in survival at any cost.
Looking at the differences, there’s no question which one we’d rather trust. The tricky part is making the commitment to tune into it. With practice, hearing this inner voice becomes second nature, and it takes on the qualities of a companion that is always with us when we need it, wherever we need it, lighting our way through the unknown.

